The Why:
you're here to grow, Earth and life are the school.
You were created to THRIVE not Survive.
Coaching for MEN who feel stuck but are ready to WIN
One-on-one video sessions, up to 90 minutes, men of all ages.
You carry a lot. Who's carrying you?
It's 3am and you're awake again. Maybe it's payroll, or a deal that's slipping. Maybe it's the children you're worried about, or a marriage that has lost its connection and feels more like a schedule than a relationship. Maybe you're trapped in loneliness. Whatever it is, you know you can't continue to live this way.
Your days are filled with responsibilities imposed on you by yourself and others. You keep busy or distracted to drown out the voice telling you that you are not living your own best life. The one you promised yourself you'd have when you were a kid.
In the quiet of the night it hits you. "No one really knows the burden I'm carrying". You can be surrounded all day and still feel alone. Or maybe you really are alone right now.
Underneath it is the same old loop of rules imposed on you years ago that were never really yours. Worry about what's coming next and whether you'll be ready. Regrets about the past. Fear.
No matter what you are carrying you don't have to carry it alone. I've spent the last 15 years unpacking my own life and I'd love to help you unpack yours so you can repack it the way you want it to be.
Does this sound like you?
- You do everything you think you are supposed to do, and you're still just surviving.
- You live by rules that never really felt like yours.
- You know you were made for more, but fear keeps pulling you back to what you believe is safe.
- You've hit a wall and can't see the way through to the life you thought you'd have by now.
- You're ready to stop letting life happen to you and start creating it.
- You want to feel loved, worthy, desired, and TRUST yourself.
If you see yourself here, let's talk about how to create the life you'd love to live.
Live by your own rules, chosen from your VALUES instead of fears.
Most of what we learned about how the world works was handed down by people who were afraid and just fell in line to be safe. Those rules were meant to tame us, not turn us on and turn us loose to thrive. I lived by imposed rules too, until through my own hardships I learned to see life differently. That is what I help other men see for themselves. Sometimes we just need someone to give us permission to give ourselves permission.
The Mission of life as I see it:
The Foundation:
spiritual awareness and physical wellbeing.
The Compass:
your values, rules chosen from inner truth instead of fear.
Personal Mastery:
knowing your values and trusting yourself to live by them.
Relationship Stability:
a steady Man builds steady relationships.
Financial Stability:
comes to the steady Man and grows through steady relationships.
Legacy:
what your mission leaves behind.
The session
Release the old life
The first session is a release. This is where you begin to let go of the life you've been living in order to create the new. A time where you can freely express your frustrations and share the burden you carry. A time where you can privately share your innermost struggles with another man who has struggled too. Release the old beliefs and programming so we can get to work finding the life you were created to live.
You've had a lifetime of expectations placed on you by yourself and others. We will replace those expectations with values you naturally live into and anchor your vision of the future to them.
A session is a private video call up to 90 minutes long. Why not an hour? Because an hour often doesn't cut it and I have personally noticed time anxiety on hour long calls when I have received coaching myself. I am not going to cut you off when the process is still working and you don't need to be watching the clock hoping we get to the good stuff in time.
This is probably not a fit if…
- You're looking for therapy, counseling, or crisis care. (If you're in crisis in the US, call or text 988.)
- You want a guaranteed job, income, relationship, or life outcome. I can't promise those.
- You want someone to tell you what to believe.
I'd rather you know early than book a session that isn't right.
The process
How it works
Join the waiting list.
Leave your first name, email and describe a little about where you are and why you are ready for coaching. I'll be in touch when booking is open.
Your first full session.
A private session of up to 90 minutes, going deep on anything you want to share. I will follow up with an email supporting what we discussed and any additional insights or tools I think could help. $450/session
Keep growing, together.
Each session builds on the last. My goal is to help facilitate your peace and freedom, not to keep you on the hook and constantly coming back. We can connect as often as it makes sense for you.
Single Session
$450
One deep talk of up to 90 minutes on any topics you want to bring, with time to actually get somewhere. I'll follow up with an email supporting what we discussed and any additional insights or tools I think could help.
48 hours notice to reschedule.
Join the waiting list
About
About me
I know what it is like to check out on your own life, eating and drinking to cope and bury your feelings while making the excuse that you are working hard and doing your part by paying the bills and this is just what life is like for a man. I know what it is like to want more and not feel like I deserve it because I am not the man I wish I was or the man I trust to get there. I know what it is like to put it off "one more day" so I could cope, make excuses and self-medicate for one more night. But a day like today comes when you are done with the way it's been and you hear the call within to claim your power as a man. You have tried to do things differently but change doesn't come from doing. Change comes from BEING. You have to BEcome the man you can trust to do the things that create the life you desire. I found this inside of myself and now I want to help as many men as I can BE their true selves.
I'm Blake. I'm in my mid-40s, with an exceptional, gorgeous wife and a new precious baby daughter. The old me would ruin my life and lose them. I still work on myself daily and getting here took a lot. A lot of introspection and honesty with myself but once I saw what was at stake and what I had to gain the change was obvious. I had to stop hurting myself and start trusting myself to be the man they need.
In the last fifteen years I've built companies, exited as a founder, and started over. I moved from Texas to Philly to South Florida. I've had my heart broken, found love, and started a family. There isn't much you could bring me that I couldn't relate to in life or business.
I took the risk to start coaching full time because there is a lot of uncertainty in the world we live in and only by becoming the men we know we were created to be can we make sure that uncertainty doesn't live inside of us. We have to lead ourselves to freedom for the sake of our families, friends, and country.
If you feel connected to what you've read here, I'd love to help you remember who you are. These are uncertain times, and you don't have to face them alone.
Questions
Questions
Is this therapy?
No. This is one-on-one coaching, not therapy. We look at where you are, what you want, what's in the way, and we work forward from there. There are no guarantees. If you're in crisis in the US, call or text 988.
Who is this for?
Coaching for MEN who feel stuck but are ready to WIN. If you've done what you were told and you're still just surviving, if fear keeps pulling you back to what's safe, or if you want to give more to the people you love and don't have much left for yourself, this is for you.
What does a session look like?
A session is a private video call, up to 90 minutes, so you can join from wherever you are. We go deep on anything you want to share. After each session I'll follow up with an email supporting what we discussed and any additional insights or tools I think could help.
How often do we meet?
Each session builds on the last. How often we meet is something we'll set together. I'm here for when you want support or to talk about your next steps.
What does it cost?
$450 for a one-on-one video call of up to 90 minutes. I'll follow up with an email supporting what we discussed and any additional insights or tools I think could help. 48 hours notice to reschedule.
Are sessions recorded?
Yes, with your consent before we meet, sessions are recorded for my private reflection, professional improvement, and transcripts. If you don't want to be recorded, tell me before we book and we'll talk about whether an unrecorded session works. Any other use would need your separate, specific approval.
Do I have to share your beliefs?
No. I coach from universal truths as I understand them, and we identify and work with your own values.
What if we're not a fit?
Then we don't force it. You will likely benefit even if we don't work well together on the first call. I am excited to work with people excited to work with me and not trying to catch the entire world.
Build the life you'd love to live.
I am excited to work together on freeing you to be the man you deserve to be, and in turn give more to those you love than ever before.
Know thyself. Be thyself. Love thyself.
You're on the list. I'll be in touch.